wedding

lately, there were a lot of people asking me this typical question: dh kawin ka blom? bila nk kawin? dh berpunya ka?

hadoiii..it's not that i don't appreciate all of u out there for being so caring about me, tp kalo tiap2 hari dok tnya soalan yg sama, penat jugak weh! but, what to do, that's basically some of the routines in my every working day for the past three weeks...answering those questions..haha

anyway, last 3 days, i went for a course for a new syllabus, KSSR for 2011..since i'm gonna teach year 1 next year, i was asked to go..i happily took the letter with a big grin on my face when i was told bout its venue, it's only 15 minutes from my house..oh yeah! 

going for a course = going back home

yeah, u r right, i was ecstatic! haha..dh la i'll be on leave for the whole week next week, starting next Sunday till the other Sunday, ohh, i feel like i'm on cloud nine!

anyway, i really enjoyed my time at the course..i met people, make new friends, and learn about a lot of things..all i can say is that, starting next year, the English class will be very enjoyable..i can't wait to teach..haha

back to my topic for today, my dad suddenly told me that he wanted me to get married a.s.a.p..what?? i was quite shocked with his statement, but i just keep quite thinking that maybe he's just simply say that since my mom was talking about someone's wedding..however (feel like i'm writing an essay in an exam, haha), it turns out that my dad is serious..gagaga..haa, baru nk gabra..adoi..

he said, he just wanted a small ceremony, only do things that we are obliged to do in Islam and a small feast..takda hantaran, takda bersanding, takda different day for the feast, pas akad nikah, mkn2 sket, dah...even baju pn takmau buat yang glamour2, sbb nnt shari ja nk pakai, what a waste..i'm glad to hear that because that's exactly what i want for my wedding..oh, i love you, dad..u really understand me..

 

i do not know what about other people, but for me, lesser is better..i do not want a wedding to be an indicator to show people of how much we can afford (yes, i'm poor if u wonder, but, i dont have any debt, itu yg penting)

wedding is a sacred ceremony, even in Islam it can be compared to building a mosque..so, i really do not want to spend on things which are not necessary and can burden my future husband and his family..i just want a small and simple wedding, surrounded only by my closest family and friends..so, sesapa yg tak dijemput nnt, plz jgn terasa..later when i do open house for Eid ul Fitr, for sure i'll invite all of u..do claim it from me later, k :-)

ceh, sembang mcm nk kawin esk ja kn..haha..takda la, just nk ckp, my dad soh kawen cpt2..dan i sgt pening dan agak sedih, smp hati dia tamau bela dh anak dia ni..huuu..haha..mmg rs cm nk lempang ja kan Ann ni, dh 24 tp dok wt mcm 14 lg nk soh abah bela pasuma, kn..mmg melampau..haha..dak2, sj ja ckp..ala, ampa ni, nk lwk sket pn takleh..hehehe..

neway, tgk la what will happen by the end of this year...ramai org nk masuk meminang ni, tp suma dh ditolak awal2, sebelum dtg umah lg, sbb i already have someone special, hehe, *blushing* :-)..bkn nk ckp i'm so hot smp ramai org tergila2, langsung dakkkk...tp besa la, org ckp saham cikgu ni tinggi, kes tu la..sbb i am a teacher, ramai la org nk wt menantu, hehe..and muka pn bleh la tahan jugak, kn *cough* *cough*..hahaha..sorry, a bit conceited there smp terbatuk2..haha..


i think sbb ramai sgt org dok tnya about me, dat's y la my dad wants me to get married a.s.a.p..ya la, my bf tu dh lama sgt org dok tgk dtg umah to take me out, send me home..so, tak manis la kn..ramai jugak yg dok ckp mcm2 kt my parents, tp disebabkan my parents are the coolest, they just ignore it, bak kata my dad, mulut org bkn bleh ttp, nnt letih, dia senyap la..hehe..whatever it is, i just pray that i'll get a good husband that can guide me to be a better person..amin..

that's all for my lengthy ramblings for today..till next time..thanks for reading..have a good day :-)